plus légère que l'air // lighter than air

Seeing as it's getting to be exam time for everyone and their mother (except, of course, me), I thought I'd provide you with a little insight to my academic process. Thus, I present you with:

How to Not Fail French University: A Plan

1. For the two classes that I have at la fac, it is necessary to milk my "Je suis une Américaine stupide" status for all that it's worth. In theory, this will get the professors to take pity on me and give me a decent grade. The majority of French kids don't get 15 out of 20, so I don't really understand how my university thinks that making a 15/20 an A constitutes as a proper scale.*
2. For my French class, suck up to Madame K. and do extra exercises to make up for my disastrous attempts at la grammaire française and the fact that I have never seen half of this grammar before.**
3. Give up my France & Europe class as a lost cause and rely on my Cultures, Institutions, & Mentalités Politiques grades to cancel it out. This might actually be possible thanks to Monsieur R.'s generosity. As for Madame G., I have no hope of her ever getting over her narrowminded viewpoint that understanding the big ideas are not as good as regurgitating shit verbatim.

*Writing my papers might also be a good idea.
**By sucking up, I really mean, "Maybe talk in class once in a while."

There is much less required work involved in the French university system. At the same time, it is just as hard, if not harder (and not just due to the whole language barrier). It's incredibly different from the expectations that we have as American students. For example, French kids aren't expected to create a thesis in their papers and defend it--they're actually not supposed to. More often than not, they end their papers having talked about three different possibilities, without knowing what the "right" answer is.

What I mean to say is that I still have no significant free time. Just lots of dead periods. And I've been incredibly bad about filling up said dead periods with French instead of English.

Basically, I'm just a failure. At French, I mean. Sob.

qu'on oublie pas // that one doesn't forget

In the past couple of weeks, I have learned the following:

• Paris is expensive, but London is even more so (I still love it anyway)
• Frenchmen have pissing contests by trying to one-up one another regarding the number of bedrooms that they have at their family chateau. Case in point: my host dad vs. his brother-in-law
• I am a tease (?)
• the French don't do Thanksgiving. In fact, your American-based university program will make sure that you have classes until 7:30 p.m. the day of
• the French suck at bowling. I mean, they really suck.
• I've developed this rather (un)fortunate addiction to mango sorbets and coffee ice-cream that actually tastes like coffee
• somewhat related to the point above, I eat like shit here because I don't drink nearly enough water
• French dolls are anatomically correct. My 3-year-old charge has a baby boy doll complete with all the relevant plumbing
• French kids have no prolem pooping and peeing in front of each other. This might explain why grown-up Frenchmen have no problem whipping out their willies in broad daylight to pee onto incoming traffic

The point is that all these random bits of knowledge, unsavory or no, would not be possible if I were not studying in Paris. This post is a day late (my bad.), but I am quite thankful for this rather eye-opening experience.

I am thankful for you, too. But you already knew that.

fais-moi revivre encore // make me alive again

Last Thursday, I had the (mis)fortune of:

• having to hand in a 10-page explication du texte on the Great Depression (in French!)
• taking a 2.5 hour midterm (passer un partiel, as they say) where I wrote a plan de dissertation on the powers of le Président de la République and a commentaire on the discourse of Robert Badinter
• knowing that I had an impending examen on the following Monday morning

Obviously, I needed a break before tackling said examen on the illustrious Charles de Gaulle and the not-as-well-known Georges Pompidou. Logically, the best course of action was to pick up and go to London for the weekend.

En fait, I'd bought my tickets on Tuesday night--two full days before the paper and the exam. In light of this disclosure, I admit that the trip was obviously not as spontaneous as I'd led you to believe. My apologies.

Anyhow, D. and I left Paris on Friday morning, departing from the Eurolines station in Bagnolet. We spent the bus ride--which lasted more hours than I care to count--sleeping, talking (in English!), and complaining by turn. A favorite subject of ours was the ridiculous process of going through customs. In all seriousness, it was like a video game: you stopped every couple of meters, drove around in circles, navigated various obstacles, performed like a monkey in heels...

We got through customs only to end up in a claustrophobe's nightmare: the ferry.

Our huge bus was boxed in by this...contraption.

All I can say is that I'm really glad I'm not claustrophobic. But seriously? D. & I were so happy to be going to London that we didn't much care.

One of our first views of London after a couple of hours on the highway.

We arrived at Victoria Coach Station around 6:15, only to be given the herculean task of somehow making it to our hostel. The process happened much like this:

1. Getting from Victoria to King's Cross via the London Underground: simple enough, albeit expensive at 4£ per single trip ticket
   
2. Getting from King's Cross to our hostel, located on King's Cross Road: more complicated than it should have been

You see...I was exhausted remiss in my duties and did not do as much research as I should have. All I had was the address. Fortunately, we ran into a very nice man who took us to the hostel and gave us some very good advice. Apparently, the road we were heading down (after making a wrong turn. Of course) led to a more unsavory part of London. Not where "two nice American girls" would like to go. Whoops. Thank you, Mr. Nice Englishman!

Public Service Announcement: Don't head down Gray's Inn Road after getting out from King's Cross. Apparently at night it fills up with a multitude of unsavory characters.

But I digress. D. & I stayed at Clink, a hostel housed in what used to be a courthouse. They kept a lot of the old structure and it looked very cool. IN general, it was nice, clean, and safe. The only bad things were the bathrooms, in which you left dirtier than you came, but I guess you can't have everything.

We made friends with some sweet Australian girls and some crazy Italian girls. I meant to go dancing with them both nights that we were there, but alas, my exhaustion (from work, traveling, and playing tourist) got the better of me on both nights. I guess I am just not a crazy party animal.

Clink's internet room was actually the old court room.

On Saturday, we did...well...everything.

We dropped by Buckingham Palace to see the Changing of the Guard.

Men in uniform always equates to an increase in my libido. But this is my future husband. Just saying.


I can't believe that they do this everyday. Or every other day.

It was an interesting ceremony, even if it got monotonous after a while. My favorite parts were a) when they had someone systematically check the little guard houses and b) the shuffling required during various parts of the whole act.

This is my other future husband. D. and I got him to smile, haha. Victory!

We then had lunch at an Italian restaurant in the Covent Gardens. This was after we walked through the artisanal crafts market, of course. An Italian man made me (and D.) a heart-shaped pizza. I'd marry him if he wasn't so old.

D. & I then met up with an old friend (one that I hadn't seen in 7 years). We were supposed to go on a walking tour, but the tour never showed up. T., kind soul that she was, played tour guide for us instead.

She took us to see Big Ben...

...and Westminster Abbey.

After taking a little break, we headed off to see the Tower of London.

Creepy? More like awesome!

And what trip would be complete without the Tower Bridge?

Sorry. This was the best one I had without my face in it.

And then, even though it was raining, we headed off to Saint Paul's Cathedral.

Pretty!


We also caught a glimpse of the Globe.

My flats were utterly destroyed by the rain, so D. & T. teamed up and convinced me to buy 3-inch-heeled boots. This involved some hardcore bargaining--I convinced a hapless young man to give me a 5£ discount. Win?

The next day, D. & I found time to hit up Platform 9 & 3/4 before leaving. I'm not too big of a Harry Potter fan, but it was fun.

"My trolley won't move!"

On the way back, D. & I couldn't stop talking about how much fun we'd had and how we didn't want to go back to Paris. In particular, we were immensely charmed by the advertisements and signage that we encountered in London:

I think that one of the best things about London was how friendly people are. Everyone smiles and makes small talk and is so helpful. I hadn't realized how much I'd missed all of this, living in Paris with the über-reserved French. But it was just so nice to interact with people and to not feel like they were looking down on me. (Seriously, my biggest sense of accomplishment in Paris comes on the days when some French(wo)man judges me to look safe, knowledgeable, and French enough to ask me for directions...) I think that this was a big reason why I didn't want to leave.

Anyway, that's neither here nor there. Just know that London was awesome. As always, pictures with my face in them are on facebook.

mourir loin de moi // to die far from me

Sometimes I get stuck in this mindset that because they are both "Western" developed countries, the United States and France are pretty much the same, escept that France just has more dog poop and cheese. Fortunately, something usually comes along before I get too comfortable and gives me a good whack on the head. Sometimes, France and the United States couldn't be more fundamentally different.

Last Thursday, it was a simple comment about how criminal justice lawyers are on the bottom of the totem pole as far as prestige and pay goes (more on this later) that gave me a sharp reminder of how different the French are.

We were sitting in my Cultures, Institutions, & Mentalités Politiques class. Contrary to popular opinion, I am capable of paying attention in a 2.5 hour lecture. We were discussing the evolution of the French judicial system. After the French Revolution, the much-maligned system where judges could be bought and nobles had separate rules was changed into an institution guided by the principles of égalité, gratuité, and centralisation. The French then had a system where judges were elected and where there was presumably less corruption. A big difference, however, if I understood correctly, is that French judges do not interpret the law in the manner that American judges do. This was revolutionary: a system where people were treated the same and money (or lack thereof) did not dictate the severity of your punishment.

As infamous as it is, the guillotine was also revolutionary because for the first time, those condemned to death was also executed the same way: quickly and elegantly. Before, nobles had the right to take poison or something quick and dignified. Poorer folks were not as lucky.

All this eventually led to talk about the death penalty. France abolished it in 1981, the last--along with Ireland--of the European Union countries to do so (although back then, it was the CEE and not the EU). During his exposé, R. put up a map showing how the world is divided roughly in half regarding the allowance of the death penalty.

Of course, this led to a talk about the state of the death penalty in the U.S. Monsieur R., poor Frenchman that he was, had a bit of a hard time wrapping his head around the Americans' decentralized way of going about it. He just didn't quite understand why we left the decision to the states. Actually, I'm pretty sure he didn't quite understand why individual states had so much power in general. I admit, though, that after someone brought up the fact that death by firing squad was still legal in Utah (I think it was Utah?), I didn't quite get it either.

The notion that we tried the recently-executed Washington D.C. sniper in Virginia (where the death penalty is legal) instead of D.C. or Maryland was also completely astounding to Monsieur R. Not because of the deliberate decision to do so, but because he couldn't believe that there was no national law governing this.

On a lighter note, back to the deal with lawyers. France is not a good place to make money if you want to be a lawyer. As stated before, the French just don't give a damn about criminal justice lawyers (so different from the U.S.!) The profession as a whole, actually, is just not that prestigious. Monsieur R. explained that magistrats were actually better received than lawyers. Something about them being closer to the law and therefore closer to reason. Since I'm not French, his reasoning went a bit over my head.

Just interesting food for thought.

je pouvais faire pire // i could have done worse

Three posts in two days? Don't get used to it!

For those of you who have not been kept up to date on my (mis)adventures with my language exchange partner...

T. & THE CREEPER

A Play in Five Acts

CAST OF CHARACTERS

T., our clueless hero

M1, friend from Princeton

M2, friend from my university

J., friend from Amherst

Creeper, language exchange partner

ACT I: EARLY WARNINGS

T: Hey guys! I'm off to meet with my language exchange partner!

M1: The one we met in Normandy?

M2: The older guy who's not even a student? T., don't go. It's sketchy. I'm pretty sure that he wants more from you than just a language exchange.

M1: Aww...he was nice! You're too suspicious!

T: And besides, why do you need to assume that any friendly Frenchman is sketchy?

M2: Because American girls have a reputation of being easy.

J: How old is this guy?

T: If he wants an easy girl, he picked the wrong one! And probably late twenties, early thirties?

J: He wants in your pants.

T&M1: Guys...really?

M2: Yeah. I'm telling you this as a guy. Guys are constantly thinking of this.

ACT II: THE FIRST MEETING

CREEPER walks up to meet T. It is raining, and CREEPER'S hair is slicked back in a slightly greasy looking manner. In addition, CREEPER has grown a pedophile mustache and beard since T. last saw him.

CREEPER: (doing the French kissing thing) T! How nice to see you! Did you have a good weekend with your parents? Take a lot of pictures?

T: Yeah. How are you? (T. is slightly weirded out by the bisous, but chalks it up to the fact that a. she's a prude at heart when faced with strange men, and b. Frenchmen do this all the time)

CREEPER: Fine, fine! Let's sit down at this café here and have a drink. You like fruit juice?

They end up at Paradis des Fruits. T. finds out that CREEPER does not drink or smoke, a first (and a rarity) amongst Frenchmen. To her, he seems nice enough, and she begins to relax...

CREEPER: ...blah blah blah blah blah...I used to date this one Japanese girl that took pictures all the time.

T: ...oh, really? Hahahahha.

CREEPER: So you are full Vietnamese? Completely Asian?

T: Yes, although a lot of people think that I am wasian.

CREEPER: Yes...your eyes look different, like you could be Eurasian. How old are you, anyway?

T: Twenty.

CREEPER: Really? I could've sworn you were at least twenty-two. Maybe twenty-three.

T: Yeah, people think I'm older. How old are you?

CREEPER: (smiles creepily) How old do you think I am?

T: ...I don't know.

CREEPER: Thirty-one.

There is an awkward silence.

CREEPER: ...blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah...my Chinese girlfriend...blah blah blah blah blah.

T: (to herself, after the third reference to ex-girlfriends who were Asian) Fuck! Guy has an Asian fetish! (to CREEPER) ...I'm sorry, what was that?

CREEPER: ...blah blah blah blah blah...Why do you study politics? Me, I came to my job rather by accident blah blah blah blah...

(At this point, the waitress comes by. It has gotten dark outside and the café has dimmed its lights. She proffers a single lighted candle, to be placed in the middle of the table.)

CREEPER: So, T...do you have a white boyfriend or a Vietnamese one?

T: ...what?! ...none at the moment...why? (It occurs to T. that perhaps she should've said, "He's actually big and black.")

CREEPER: I just wanted to know. Some families have a problem with dating outside your race. I had a Chinese coworker once--her family took a very long time to accept her Indian boyfriend.

T: ...right. Well, my parents don't have a say who I date.

The meeting continues. Near the end, CREEPER makes a comment about how the French joke about sex much more easily than do Americans. T. responds, saying that she jokes about sex all the time...with her friends. CREEPER says that in France, you can even joke with strangers. Eventually, after resisting the urge to check her watch for the umpteenth time, T. leaves. The meeting ends with, of course, un bisous.

ACT III: MIDWEEK

T. is in the middle of a crowded supermarket, recounting her horribly awkward experience to her friends, when her phone rings.

M2: I told you that he wanted in your pants.

T: Possibly. But he could just be really friendly! Hang on....(taking out her phone) hello? Oh hi!

CREEPER (voice from backstage): Hello! I just wanted to call and try to set up a time to meet tonight?

T: What? Can you say that again?

CREEPER: It's me...you don't remember me? (creepy chuckling)

T: (under her breath) Jesus fucking Christ... (out loud) Of course! I just can't hear you. What are you saying?

CREEPER: I want to set up a meeting time for tonight!

T: I'm not actually free tonight...or the entire week. Only during Sunday? Can you send me an email?

CREEPER: Of course!

ACT IV: THE SECOND MEETING

They meet and font la bise.

CREEPER: If you like coffee, maybe next time I will take you to my office and make you coffee there? It will be cheaper.

T: Uh...no thanks! I like cafés just fine!

The conversation progresses much as before. T. is unable to concentrate on French, so most of the exchange takes place in English and badly broken French. T. claims tiredness.

T: I actually wanted to talk to you. You see, I signed up for this during the beginning of the year, when I didn't have many activities. Now as you can see, I am not free during the week, and only a few times during the weekend since I'll be traveling so much. I'm just not going to be able to meet you for the requisite amount of two times or three times a week. Maybe it will be better for you to find a new partner?

CREEPER: ...I understand. I like you, but it will be better for me to find someone who I can meet with more often. (jokingly) I'm sad that you don't like me enough to stay!

T: ahahahaha. Mkayyythanksbye!

ACT V: REACTIONS

T: So I got myself out of that situation.

M2: Good girl. But I told you he was creepy.

T: ...

So I guess my life wouldn't make for a very good play.

comme ceux d'avant // like those before

Now that the Great Bitch Fest of 2009 is over, I'd like to bring something more...savory (in the food/taste sense of the word) to your attention:

French cuisine is generally known as one of the best in the world. But what about the times when les français get a craving for junk food? Something more trashy? Something not quite so refined?

They go to the store and buy steak-flavored potato chips, of course!

This is not my picture. I ate my bag and guiltily threw away the remnants at the Metro before I remembered that I wanted a picture.

I can attest that the steak-flavored potato chips do, in fact, taste like meat. And like steak. The roast-chicken potato chips are almost as good (albeit a bit blander, in my opinion). And I'm pretty sure that the chorizo potato chips tasted like the Spanish sausage that they were inspired by.

A tiny part of me is ashamed that I bothered to try this, but only a tiny part. (On a side note, this is why it's so nice to hang out with boys: you only feel guilty for buying shit like this for a brief moment.)

Before you lose all respect for me and my taste buds: note that while I liked this, it did not merit both a "food" and a "sex" tag. :P

arrêtez, vous êtes fous // stop, you're crazy

Looking through my entries, I've noticed that everything is either a "France is great!" post or a "France is ridiculous...but in a funny way!" post. It was definitely a conscious decision on my part to keep it that way. Sure, I blog for you guys, but I am also writing for me. I want to reread this when I am old, want to be able to say, "Ah...those were the days!" When my memory is gone, I want to read about happy things, not moments of frustration that are no longer important.

So yeah, I want to romanticize Paris. I want to keep your visions of it--those of who have not visited--pure and untainted. To those who have been here and who have truly found it to be the City of Lights and Love, I want to bring back your sense of nostalgia. Besides, no one likes a complainer (I admit to bristling a bit when my parents were here and complained of the differences). Sure, there's dog shit everywhere and everything is three times smaller, but the good far outweighs the bad, and what you view as "inferior" is often just a different way of thinking.

All that said, I thought I'd give you a bit of insight to the French university system. After much thought, it saddens me to say that the only positive thing that I can take from it is that it really teaches you to be self-driven and independent--you have no other choice. You either do what you think you need to, or you fail. Since the university system is such an essential component of study abroad (at least for my program), I thought I'd say something about it. Just some thoughts to keep in mind for those who might be planning to come here to study in the future.

(Why yes, this is related to an important decision that I have recently made. But my reasons for that are my own--even though I guess I'm effectively explaining them here--and I could care less what anyone thinks or what judgments they might pass on me.)

1. On my first day of class à la fac, I spent close to an hour of a three-hour lecture/discussion walking around with my class because our room was double-booked. And the second place we went to was double-booked. So was the third room, actually, but we got to stay there. But the place we ended up at didn't have enough chairs for one-third of the students.
2. Every time I go to this class now, students still have to go searching for chairs when they arrive.
3. Lecture/discussion is misleading. Professors (often two different ones for each component) lecture at both (and often repeat the material). Students give an exposé once a semester, but otherwise are not expected to talk.
4. Class is often one big three-hour block, once a week. Forget the research that shows how one's attention span only lasts an hour and a half at most. They don't really give a shit whether you absorb the information or not.
5. Actually, they (the teachers, the administration, etc.) don't give a shit, period.
6. The system is designed to let the smart ones pass and the dumb ones fall by the wayside. The teachers themselves aren't going to put in any effort. (On a side note, they are fonctionnaires, so they are guaranteed their jobs for pretty much the rest of their lives. And teacher evaluations don't exist here). They told me that on the first day of orientation.
7. Continuing along the "they don't give a shit" line, I'm pretty sure that only two out of my six teachers know my name. Or even recognize my face. Update: Actually, I take that back. Maybe one teacher knows my name.
   
8. Here, they grade you on the form/method--and how much you can repeat back at them--rather than the ideas. You can't say, "There were debates and the French ended up choosing A, B, and C..." You have to say, "The French first had to decide between A1 & A2. After that, they then moved to decide between B1 and B2..." This is the difference between a 1.5/4 and a 3.5/4. You don't get a 4/4 here in France.
9. There is often a big disconnect between what you are supposed to be able to do and what you can actually do. This is probably due to the bureaucracy, but also especially prevalent in what the program tells you while you are in the States and the reality of the program in France. "Take any classes you want? No, we meant, 'take whatever you want given these conditions...'" And while they are at it, they will also act surprised when you confront them about grades for things you were never told was going to be graded.
10. "Oh! By the way, there are also random expenses that we didn't tell you about." But that's okay, it's not like they knew we were international students. Or that they knew these things were required or anything.
11. Libraries here open for a very small set of hours. The circulation system is a nightmare. And you are way out of luck if you need to pee. For some reason, I can't seem to let this go.

Yeah, yeah, I could suck it up. But those who know me know that I chose to go to a liberal arts college. I did that for a reason: namely, to avoid everything that I just listed above. I don't think that this makes me a spoiled bitch.

I also know that all education does not happen in the classroom. But I'm often too busy doing schoolwork to go out and about. And Parisians are a notoriously reserved lot--you can't get to know them unless you put in a significant amount of effort and time.

And finally, the thing that galls most of all?

12. Parisians pay 300 Euro a year for this university system of theirs. My price tag is $43,000.

Actually, it's more than that now that the dollar is so weak. I'm not paying full price (fortunately), but still. Remember how I paid 90 Euro for that stamp a while back? That is almost 1/3 of the annual tuition fee for the French. For what I'm paying, I'd like to get a little bit more, please.

elles passent en un instant // they pass by in an instant

My host family took me to see Gorki's Les Enfants du Soleil / Children of the Sun / whatever the title is in Russian the other the other night. It was kind of a last-minute thing where they were like, "Thao, tu veux aller au théâtre avec nous ce soir?" And I was like, "OF COURSE I want to go to the theatre with you!"

So I still didn't know what it was about when I got to the theater. I'm proud to say that I understood most of what was happening (sort of), even if I failed to understand the overall theme. I can't tell whether it's because Gorki is complicated or because I fail at French. Probably a mixture of both.

It was so interesting for me to look at the kind of people that were at the play, though. A friend of mine once made a comment about how "straight guys just don't get that excited about operas"/plays. I guess that they do in France? There was your standard group of older folks, but there were also A LOT of couples out for a date that night. And these kids were probably still in high school/college.

M. from Middlebury once asked (rather rhetorically, I guess) what the French people do for fun. Yes, there is the party scene, and yes, there is the trashy American TV shows. But for the most part, I've noticed that the French are very well-cultured. I think it's due to the fact that cultural stuff is so readily available in Paris.

France is very centralized; Paris is the center for everything: government, arts, culture, etc. And it is so incredibly cheap for students. My host mom told me that with things like operas and plays, students can go for a significantly cheaper price than can adults. With a student identity card, museums are free (or almost free).

It's a very good business and cultural model, I think. By making cultural stuff so readily accessible to students, you expose them to it at an early age. And by the time they grow up, get jobs, and earn money, they'll be more likely to be willing to pay. In the US, I feel like operas and ballets give off this impression of being more high class and expensive than it really should be. I know that I have never been tempted to go to an opera in the US, for example.

But yeah, just something to think about.

comme le soleil // like the sun

Yesterday, I saw some postcards being sold, 31 for 5 Euro. They all started out with Je pense à toi, or I'm thinking of you.

'Aww...how sweet!' I thought. 'The romance!'

Except then I looked a little bit further. Sure, some of the cards had cutesie quotes like, "I do nothing else all day," and, "With you in my life, I need nothing more."

But.

There were also a couple of cards that were less...poetic.

For example:

"I am thinking about you...I spent two hours remembering the smell of your sex."

Sex. As in genitals. As in vagina.

I thought Parisians were supposed to be classy?

je vais et je viens // i go and i come

I always have so many "Only in France..." moments that I forget to blog about. For example, only in France...

...will you see a woman, dressed to the nines, smoke a joint as she is walking down the street.
...will said woman be wearing five-inch stilettos. On cobblestones streets.
...is the aforementioned woman at least sixty years old.

...is taking forever to bring out the entree, the plat principal, and the dessert considered good service (the waiters assume that you want to spend forever talking, which, admittedly, is true some of the time).
...will sitting down double the price of your coffee.

...will you see some of the most creative parking on Earth.

...will you see huge posters with full frontal nudity while walking down the street.
...will no one bat an eye at said posters (the U.S. is too hindered by our puritanic roots).

I have more, of course, but you get the point. Anyway, the reason that I bring this up is that today, I had my medical visit to obtain my titre de sejour. It is basically a stamp in my passport that goes along with my visa and states that I am not in France illegally.

It was quite the process to get my visa.

To get your titre de sejour, you had to have a complete dossier filled with things like: attestation of housing insurance, attestation of lodging, attestation that you are registered at a university, etc. After your dossier is complete, they send it off to the OFII office (the equivalent to the INS in the United States). Once OFII receives it, they schedule a time for you to come have a visite medical. In theory, they will also send you a convocation.

After a catfight with my housing coordinator (in which she assured me that I would not need my convocation), I went off to the OFII office.

Of course, the first thing they told me was that I needed a convocation to even enter the building.

D. was right, though, it all eventually worked out (although with a lot of frustration on my part). I think it helped that there were at least seven other kids from my program, all sans convocation. The guy eventually took pity on us and looked up our names on the computer. Thankfully, there were no mishaps and it showed that we actually were supposed to be there.

It was then that I had my first "only in France" moment of the day: despite the fact that I had an appointment and all my paperwork in order, I was told that I would have to reschedule if I did not have my timbre with me. I did.

Just to let you know, that little stamp cost me 55 Euro. A piece of paper the size of my thumbnail. 81.19 USD. Fucker. So, only in France will a little piece of paper be worth a month's supply of food.

As I was in the process of having my medical visit, I encountered a few more "only in France" moments. Only in France...

...will the doctors shout out your weight from across the room (thanks, man).
...will your vision test include famous passages to see how well you can read up close.
...will you take off your shirt & bra in front of a huge black man and have it be completely nonsexual.
...will said experience of you being completely naked from the waist up also include said huge black man pressing you against the wall that is the upright x-ray machine.

They even had a hair clip attached to the x-ray machine so that I could get my hair out of the way. But then again, I was attached to the x-ray machine.

Just for future reference: as good as the French health care system is, they do not include paper dresses for these kinds of examinations. There were also nothing protecting my ovaries when the chest x-ray was taken. I would like to have babies eventually, but I guess the French don't really care.

I also ended up undressing for an old Asian woman (she was the doctor who took my blood pressure and heart rate and all that shit). Who knew you needed to undress for a stethoscope to be useful?

I thought my French was pretty good, but apparently not enough. That second time, I only needed to take my shirt off (and was allowed to keep the bra on).

Guess who didn't realize that until much later?

First step: pressing yourself against a wall while completely naked from the waist up.
Second step: ...going to nude beaches?

Sometimes I really miss the United States and its uptight sensibilities.